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Why many men don’t have friends

This is the best explanation of why men have a hard time making friends that I have ever seen.  And it will give you a good idea of what you need to do to make friends. http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/04/17/how-to-make-friends-in-a-new-city/...

Should you tell your spouse that you are cheating?

I just received a question on my contact form asking me if I wrote a particular article found on the web.  The person didn’t leave contact information, so it is probably a spammer’s attempt to get me to publish a link to their article.  But the article...

Do the right thing until you make it.

The secret to solving a lot of relationship problems is as easy as doing the right thing.  When I suggest this to my clients, they often reply “oh yeah, fake it until you make it, right.”  The idea being that you do what you are “supposed” to...

Marriage is happier when there’s no one else

One problem I keep seeing in my marriage counseling clients is a loss of interest in staying together.  And many times, it comes down to thinking that there’s a better partner somewhere out there:  “If I left this passionless marriage, I would have the...

Complaining and Sex Don’t Mix

You might want your partner to have sex with you more often.  You might want more effort.  Or more affection.  Or something more adventurous.  It can be frustrating not getting what you want in any part of life.  It can be particularly frustrating knowing that someone...